Hair Steaming: Instant Moisture, Strength, and Growth Naturally!

Tip 1:  Be Smart

Safety first!!  Beautifully soft hair is great, but not at the cost of your health.  Always follow the instructions of your steamer and read your labels thoroughly.  DO NOT use clothing steamers, steam mops, or steamers not intended for hair/skin contact!  Using such may result in severe burns and other injuries.

Tip 2:  Use Distilled Water

Steamers are delicate creatures, they need tender loving care just like the rest of us.  Using distilled, purified, or demineralized water will help keep your steamer free of deposits and bacterial growth.  Mineral deposits may clog your steamer, blocking the release of steam and causing your machine to sputter.  Additionally, water deposits can corrode the working parts of the steamer, causing your investment to fall apart more quickly.  Long story short, avoid tap water and mineral water at all costs.

Tip 3: Don’t Over Do It

Too much of a good thing, is bad!  We want moisture but not too much moisture.  Too much moisture can make your hair gummy, and weak.  Think over-boiled mashed potatoes– sticky, mushy, and limp…and nobody likes limp…hair.

In the warmer months, when moisture is in the air, I steam once a month for 30 minutes.  In the colder months, when moisture is hard to come by and Mother Nature deprives us of our God-given right to warmth and sunshine, I steam every other week (every 2 weeks) for 30 minutes.

Tip 4: Protect Ya Neck

Hot water can drip on your neck…this is not pretty or comfortable.  Place a towel around your neck to avoid burns and dripping water.

Tip 5: Get a Big Hood

There are a number of hand-held steamers on the market.  In my modest, yet experienced, opinion, hand-held steamers do not deliver the powerful moisture punch that hooded steamers deliver.  Imagine the amount of steam your receive when your hood is delivering consistent, continuous, copious amounts of steam while you are relaxingly reading a book or watching television.  Now, imagine the extended amount work and effort you’ll exert if you use a hand-held steamer.

Tip 6: No Plastic Caps

Using a plastic cap defeats the purpose of steaming.  With conventional hooded dryers, using a plastic cap improves the conditioning process by trapping moisture and prevents direct contact with dry air.  But,  with steamers we want the steam to directly contact our hair.  We want all that steamy goodness to penetrate our hair shafts and deliver immediate moisture.  Plastic caps will prevent your hair from receiving maximum steam benefits and maximum benefits from your conditioner.

Take note from Joan Crawford “no wire hangers plastic caps ever!”

Tip 7:  Cool it Down

Be like New Edition and cool it now down after your steam treatment.  Steaming opens your pores and opens the cuticles of your hair; please seal them closed when you are done.  Rinse your hair with cool water after you steaming session to add shine and seal in the lustrous moisture your conditioner added to your strands.

Steaming is your friend!!  Do it regularly and consistently and you will get softer and healthier hair.




Buns & Bangs

I love my bangs!! Check out one of my favorite hairstyles. It’s sexy and stylish!


Step 1: Flip hair forward.

Flip all of your hair forward to got maximum volume and fullness.  Some people tease their hair but I prefer not to.  Teasing can cause knots and breakage, and lead to thinning hair.

Step 2:  Split hair into two sections

Split your hair into half sections (top and bottom).  Secure the bottom section with a clip to keep your sections separated.

Step 3: Finger Comb

Finger comb your sections for less breakage, and a less-than-perfect look.  Perfect buns scare me!  Messy buns look more real and authentic.

Step 4: Make a Ponytail

Secure top with section an elastic/ ponytail holder.  You can use a scrunchie to add some size and form to your bun, or you can use a no-break elastic.  Do not put too much tension on your edges or pull your edges too tightly.  Tight buns can cause headaches and thinning edges.  OUR EDGES ARE OUR FRIEND!!

Step 5: Spin top knot

Spin your top hair around pony tail or scrunchie.  Keep your bun loose and give it a fuller look and lightly tug at your fun until you reach desired size.   Small buns are no bueno and make you look like you have less hair.

Fin!! Now you have a super sexy look that accessorizes a casual outing or an elegant night on the town.  ENJOY!

8 Easy Tips for Winter Hair Care


Watch Video: Winterize Your Locs

Cold weather is brutal on our locs.  When we’re outside Mother Nature freezes our hair and indoors the heater is zapping our moisture.  Use these easy tips to keep your hair, skin, and nails healthy, moisturized, and camera-ready during the cold months.  Taking care of your hair in the fall and winter allows you can flaunt your beautiful hair in the warm summer and spring.

Tip 1:  Drink More Water

Water is the elixir of life!  Drinking more water hydrates your hair and combats brittle, dry, rough hair.  Ever touch your hair in the winter and it feels like straw!!??  The quickest, easiest way to remoisturize hair is to drink water!  Added bonus:  drinking water also helps with hair growth.  So, cheers, DRINK UP!!

Tip 2: Use a Humidifier

Dry air is our enemy causing dry eyes, brittle hair, and patchy skin!  Humidifiers add instant moisture into the air and fight the bad heater dry air.   Adding moisture into the air will keep your skin supple, hair smooth, and eyes comfortable while you’re indoors hiding from winter weather.  Usually, the first indications of overly dry air are bloodshot eyes and chapped lips!!  Keep those lips kissable and those eyes clear!

Tip 3: Switch Up Your Products

When the weather changes I switch to thicker, more moisture-infusing products!  My hair has an instant appreciation for the new products and it shows with my first wash.

But, pay close attention to labels!  If your products contain humectants, you may be doing more harm.  Humectants are known to pull moisture from the air into the hair when there is humidity in the air but they also pull moisture from your hair into the hair when there is less humidity in the air.  So, while you think you’re moisturizing your hair you’re really moisturizing the AIR!!  No bueno!  If products list a humectant as one of the first ingredients I generally steer clear during the colder months.

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Tip 4:  Moisturize!

This post has a reoccurring theme: MOISTURE!!  Adding moisture and retaining moisture should be your top priorities this winter.  Deep conditioning more often, and using a steamer allows your conditioner to penetrate your hair more quickly and effectively.  In the summer and spring I deep condition my hair once a month, in the winter I deep condition my hair two times a month.  It helps, it works, DO IT 🙂

Added bonus:  hair steaming increases your scalp circulation and promotes hair growth!  Yeeeessss for collateral benefits!!

Tip 5: Wear a Silk-Lined Cap

Silk lined caps, scarves, and coats are an amazing accessory.  Your hair is nice and cozy under the cap and your ears are protected.  Caps are excellent for bad-hair days.  Are you headed to brunch and in need of a serious wash?  Throw on a silk lined-cap to protect your tresses while stylishly indulging and engaging.

Tip 6: Wash Less Often

Shampoos can be harsh, blow-drying is, well, drying!  Avoid shampooing and blow-drying your hair in the winter.  You may want to wash your hair every other week, or blow dry your hair on a cool setting.  Some suggest air drying more often, but I say steer clear!  Air drying hair in the winter may cause more harm than good.  The heater will immediately zap your hair, and the cold weather combined with your wet tresses may actually cause your hair to freeze and break off.

Tip 7: Wear Protective Styles

What is a protective style?  There are sooooo many theories surrounding what makes a style protective, why not present another.  Protective styles should protect, not cause more damage or harm.

Three easy rules to keep in mind when wearing a protective style.

  1. Protect your edges and nape with a silk or satin scarf
  2. Avoid tension
  3. Tuck in your ends

If you follow these three rules you’ll find the most delicate parts of your hair protected, strong, and sparkling!!

Tip 8:  Apply Rules Indoors and Outdoors

This is the hard part!!  Winterizing your hair, skin, and nails involves being deliberate when you’re indoors and outdoors.  When you’re comfy and cozy at home, watching tv your hair should be in a protective style; while you’re sleeping your humidifier should be working.  Dry air is the enemy, but we shall overcome!